Community and Relationships
The Goodness of Vulnerability
As we sat side by side watching our kids’ practice, he showed concern about an issue with his son. I could relate.
Dear Church: Words from a Single Friend
I love how The Message translation of the Bible puts Paul’s 1 Corinthians 7 message about relationships, and particularly what it says about singleness.
Learning to Face Rejection
My longest adult relationship before marriage lasted about a year. But it limped along for six months too long.
Five Ways to De-Stress the Christmas Season
It seems every year the pressure surrounding Christmas gift-giving spins more and more out of control.
How to Help Friends Who Are Hurting
I had only been married for a few years when cancer tried to kill my mother-in-law.
The Hard Work of Forgiveness
As I write this, I am actually fighting against God’s invitation to forgive.
The Secret to Connecting to People Different from Us
What would it look like if, every day, in every conversation, in every social media interaction, followers of Jesus lived out Philippians 2:3-4 in the ways we listened to others?
Real Friends Say Hard Things: How to Speak Truth in Love
I was raised in a home where we were taught that we have voices.
Ten Things I Hate About Church—and Why I Go Anyway
On the surface, I go to church because I should, because I said I would, and because I want to model church attendance to my kids. But, if I can step outside my negativity and sense of drudgery about it, I remember that I go because I’m part of a family.